Yadda za a yi Maganganun Shawarwari na Kayan Gida don Kiyaye Mafi Kyau
Kwanan zartarwar bazai zama wata doka ba, amma har yanzu yana da tabbaci game da kai da kuma gagarumar sadaukar da kai ga juna.
Gudanar da taro na farko sun kasance kamar yadda hanyoyi masu ma'aurata ke nunawa juna ga juna, amma yanzu auren jima'i a shari'a a Amurka , shirye-shiryen sadaukarwa ba shine zaɓi ba. Duk da haka, bukukuwan sadaukarwa sun zama wani zaɓi ga ma'aurata da yawa.
Wasu yanayi na iya hana ma'aurata, gay ko madaidaiciya, daga auren aure, ko ma'aurata kawai bazai so su yi auren doka.
Tsarin bikin aure yana cike da shawara game da yadda ake kiran bukukuwan bikin aurenku, amma ga wadanda suke riƙe da bikin cikawa, akwai matsaloli biyu: kalmomi "bikin aure" da "aure." Tun da yake ba aure ba ne kawai, ba kalmomin nan ba ne, amma kawar da su yana da alaƙa da kyawawan hakki daga gayyatar.
Kada ku damu, domin akwai hanyoyi da yawa don yin magana da sadaukarwar ku na bikin gayyata a hanyar da za ta adana flair da sophistication na gayyatar, yayin da kuke tunani game da yanayin da abubuwan da kuka yi wa juna. Ga dama dama zažužžukan:
Iyaye suna ba da izini na Halin Kasuwanci:
Mista da Mrs. John Doe
Nemi izinin gabaninka
a bikin bikin
haɗuwar 'yar
Jane Doe
tare da
Alice Smith
Yarinyar Mr. da Mrs. Paul Smith
Asabar, ranar biyar ga Oktoba, 2003
a karfe biyar na yamma
Brooklyn Botanical Gardens Palm Kotun
Da fatan za a hade mu a cikin liyafar nan da nan bayan bikin
Ma'aurata sunyi Jagora na Informal:
Da fatan a hade mu
kamar yadda muke tunawa da mu
Taron Shawara
John Doe da Paul Smith
Asabar, Oktoba 5th a karfe 11 na safe
Newport Harbour Club
Newport, Rhode Island
Binciken da zai faru a nan gaba zai bi bikin
Don zaɓuɓɓukan da ke sama, zaka iya zabar maye gurbin "bikin cika alkawari" tare da wasu kalmomi, ciki har da: bikin aure, aure, aure, mai tsarki, ƙungiya ƙungiya, bikin kungiya, dangantaka dangantaka, bikin sadaukarwa, bikin haɗin gwiwa, ko gaske kowane lokaci da ka ji wakiltar bikinka. Wannan bikin ne. Yi duk abin da kake so!
Sauran Zabuka:
John Doe da Maria Smith
kira ka ka shiga su
kamar yadda suke musayar alkawurra kuma suna hada rayukansu
Asabar, Oktoba 5, 2003
St. Marks Church
314 Jackson Lane
Kansas City, Missouri
Tare da farin ciki
mu, Chris Smith da Sarah Doe
kira ka ka raba cikin bikin kaunarmu
Asabar, Oktoba 5, 2003
shi gida
206 Martin Street
Seattle, Washington