Wata maƙasudiyar biki da fari suna da dangantaka da ladabi ko wani lokaci na musamman. Wannan shi ne abin da ya sa ya zama zancen ra'ayi mai ban sha'awa ga bikin aure matasa kamar su shahararrun shahararrun shekaru 16, damuwa da ranar haihuwa. Idan kana shirin daya daga cikin waɗannan lokatai, ga wasu ra'ayoyi don taimaka maka ka cire wani abu mai duhu da fari na kakar.
Ƙungiyoyin Manyan Black-da-White:
- A kan gayyata, ka tambayi kowa da kowa ya sa baki ko fari ko duka biyu.
- Yarinyar yarinya na iya sa baki da / ko farar fata, kuma, sai dai la'akari da ita ta yi launi daban-daban don ta tsaya a ranar ta musamman.
- Cika gadon sarauta tare da baki da fari balloons, streamers da kayan ado.
- Ka kafa hoton hoto da kuma tafiya tare da kyamara inda wani aboki ya karbi hotuna na baƙi a cikin yamma. Kuna iya fitar da gashin kayan ado da ƙaya don yara don amfani da su. Lokacin da jam'iyyar ta ƙare, juya wadannan hotuna daga launin zuwa launin fata da fari (mafi yawan shirye-shiryen kwamfuta masu sarrafa hoto zasu iya yin wannan a gare ku tare da danna linzamin kwamfuta) kuma aika su zuwa ga yara a matsayin wata hanya ta ce godiya ga zuwan.
- Wani hoton hoto shine ƙirƙirar bayanan hoto kuma kawai bari yara hotunan hotuna tare da wayoyin salula. A matsayin wata ƙungiya, za ka iya ba su lambobin tsaffin don samun samfurin hotunan fata da fari don na'urori.
- Saita abincin zabibi ko teburin cin abinci tare da haɗin baki da fari da kayan abincin abincin.
- Don abincin dare, bauta wa baki da fari abinci, irin su fararen pizza tare da zaitun man zaitun baƙi, mai kaza kaza a kan shinkafa shinkafa ko sushi mai siƙi fata-da-fari,
- Don kayan kayan zaki, bautar karnuka (wanda aka sani da karnuka shaidan), kukis na fata da fari, kullun baki-da-farar fata, kukis da cake na kirimai ko cake na baki da fari (irin wannan lacy cake din Andrea's Cakes). By hanyar, idan kun gama amfani da launi guda ɗaya, duba wannan baƙar fata, fari da kuma blue cake, kuma daga Andrea's Cakes.
- Hanya raƙuman haske a cikin sarari.
- Don kiɗa, ƙirƙirar waƙoƙin waƙoƙi waɗanda suka ambaci baki ko fari cikin kalmomin. Shawarwari sun hada da Black ko White da Michael Jackson, Black Velvet by Alannah Myles Black Magic Woman by Santata da White Wedding by Billy Idol.
- Ka baiwa kowane ɗayan mata bikin farin fure yayin da suka shiga cikin jam'iyyar. Bada baƙo baki ɗaya ko farin rabin mask da za a yi a yayin bikin (kuma ya dauki gida a matsayin ni'ima).
- Ga masu farin baƙar fata da na farin ciki, suna cika fure-furen filayen filayen furen fata tare da baki da farin cakulan cakulan, ko baki da fararen burin.